Our hearts!

Our hearts are the eyes that God has given us to see beyond physical reality. Some peoples' hearts are not yet prepared to understand true love; others are more than prepared. The latter don't just understand true love, but practice it every day; in every opportunity. I ask you guys, what is love to you? Do you listen to your heart? Can you see with your heart and not with your mind? What do you do to keep harmony in your everyday relationships? Have you ever asked yourself these questions?

Some people need hope, but yet others can just find it even in the most unimaginable places. So I have a theory;a very complex one. Lets see if I can explain it thouroughly. First of all, love is not what you see when you come across a good looking person or when someone makes you feel important or when you have just accomodated your life to someone; no, that is not love (wake up call). I am going to talk to you about another type of love; the one that I consider to be the real one. Ok, now just read and then (until the end) ask questions, if any. Ironically, lets start with a question: What can you give to others? Ok, more clearly, do you have anything that would make another person happy? Yes or no? It is a simple question. Do you have something that would help in another person's life? If yes, then you have to give it away; you have to give what you have to a person that needs it. That is true love; and guess what? This is the really interesting part: When you give all you can, in an unselfish mannner, your life is then filled with love; the real love, the type of love that will make you feel happy and strong and powerful. And then, when you keep doing this, I can guarantee you that all the people that fulfill your life will just come closer and closer and CLOSER to you. AND THEN, if you think you need a partner (boyfriend or girlfriend), that person will just manifest in your life (Don't let him or her go); it is like magic. You must create this magic around you and start living a happy and meaninful life. So basically, it is your responsability to attract real love to your life. Do you know if you really want it? Ponder that.

Now, for the broken hearts: Have you ever given everything you can to another person and then still felt that you are not complete and happy? Do you think my theory is not true because you have tried it and it didn't work out? Well, you must add something to my theory: If you are not receiving what you need, even when you are giving away your best, then true love is not able to manifest in that relationship; probably because the other person is not ready. And if you get mad because of this and you keep demanding, then YOU are the one who is not prepared for true love (romantic wise). That is the wake up call for this post. Don't feel sad or angry; it is not going to help you. You have to be the wise person who can understand that love and happiness are not an automatic response but a simple choice. If you had a person by your side and he/she didn't make you feel fulfilled, then it was just because he/she had nothing else left in him/her self to give you; probably he/she lost hope. And where were you when your partner needed you? Do you think you can still give something away to help your relationship? I bet you can. If you are reading this post, I bet you can still give something to restore that relationship into a better one. The question is, do you what to do it? Do you still feel that real love? If you do, then go for it; if you don't, then step aside and go look for some peace. If you have nothing else to give to others then move aside and go fill up yourself so you can have something to give away. Don't be selfish; just give it away and you will find it (love). If someone is not prepared to be happy with you, just let go. They will come back when they are ready (maybe you will still be there or maybe you would have already found happiness and love).

Keep pondering....

All the time,
Raúl