Relationships - Agreements - Love - Creation

I know I was supposed to write about Telos (the underground city under Mount Shasta) in this next post, but I figured something more important to discuss before we get back to the Agarthian Network of Cities. This post is about relationships and our responsibilities when we are part of one. 

You know, when we come to this planet and to this dimension, we come as CREATORS and as FREE BEINGS. Our soul nature is to be free and by instinct, we will protect that freedom; our spirits need to feel released from any strings that might make us feel limited in any way. We must understand that in order to become the CREATOR that we were meant to be, we must first let our spirits flow in the freedom that is expected for each and everyone of us. You see freedom makes you happy; when you are happy, you may obtain things or feelings that can be shared with others; and when you have something that can be given away, you can make someone happy and thus, you can have a wonderful relationship with whomever you want to share your life with. When we start a relationship, it is because of the need to share our happiness with a person that can reciprocate that feeling, and that's why everything is so dazzling. The problem is that when some time has gone by, many people forget that they must fill themselves up again, in order to have something that can be given away to the person that has decided to share his/her life with them. In other cases, people have forgotten how to be free or how to let the other person feel the freedom that we talked about at the beginning of this post. And that's when problems start. 

You know, when you ask another person to behave in a certain manner or to give you things in order for you to be happy, that's is not love. For when you really love somebody, you ask for nothing but you give away what you have. Love doesn't ask for anything, love doesn't even notices how much someone is giving you, but makes you feel concerned on how much you are giving away and pushes you to keep giving. Happiness is achieved in that manner in a more profound way. Yet, another way to keep happiness in your life, is by never forgetting that you are a CREATOR by nature; that is the purpose of your and everyone’s existence. As partners in a relationships, we are also CO-CREATORS, and we must try to co-create with our partner the reality and every moment that makes him/her happy. Relationships are about sharing and not about what we see in the media. We must not let television or Valentine’s Day (romantically speaking) be the basis or the foundation of our everyday relationships. Instead, remember you and everybody in this planet came here to CREATE and experience the magnificence of this world in an autonomous way. We decide to share our experience with other beings, and that’s because we have the ability to LOVE; that is why we CREATE relationships. All this has been given to us as a gift from that eternal energy, which we call GOD. Nurture your life so you can share it with someone else in a healthy manner, in which both of you will feel complete. CREATE; you create when you talk; when you discuss a new idea; when you decide to go out with friends; when you decide to go for a walk or for a swim; when you decide you want to learn how to paint, or how to play a guitar; or when you decide to start a new business; when you exercise, when you write a movie script or a fabulous song, etc, etc. Nurture your life and help others nurture theirs; in that way you will always have great relationships (but start with yourself). When a problem presents itself, think first and don't react on a feeling that you probably don't understand. Remember LOVE is about giving and not about wanting. That’s all; I hope you ponder on it.

If you want to listen to Esther Hicks on this topic, check the last video on the left side of your screen, in the section called, "Law of Attraction -  Teachings of Abraham". It is the last video on the bottom (the one with the smiling kid).

Have a great one everybody,

Raúl